Helen Nicholson Bolenbarker

Gloria Gist (Wensel) Cain

Helen Nicholson Bolenbarker

809 Wells Street

Diboll, Texas 75941

936-829-2802

lukebb@consolidated.net

 

After graduation I began the executive secretarial course at Southwestern Business University in downtown Houston. Can you believe my business Math teacher was Mrs. Bertha P. Jacobs! I was so happy to be her student for another nine months. It felt a little like Aldine when Gracie Ann DeCarlo began in the fall.

 

My first job was with Pure Oil Co. as executive secretary in the Scouting Dept. I was surprised to find June Roark there in one of the departments. We had a few precious years together. Other jobs through the years were short-term because I was married to a career Marine, and Uncle Sam kept us on the move.  One job for a year was as a control clerk for the First City National Bank in Houston. Another year found me as an office manager for a wholesale tropical fish hatchery. Another time found me as a secretary for a State Farm Agent in Louisiana. Most jobs I did as a volunteer on the military bases working with the Navy Relief Society as well as the Officer Wives' Club. Volunteer work was always done for the church where ever we would live.

 

I could write a book on all the joys and tears of my life with the military. This was the life our two girls knew. Luther spent 24 years with the U.S. Marines, so we lived from California to North Carolina. He spent 3 tours of duty in Viet Nam, and each time I'd return to Texas so our girls could know family and have some roots. Lois McGill Boyd was homemaking teacher for my oldest daughter (Debi) at Hambrick during one of those times. When the POW'S from Viet Nam came home, we lived on the Air Base in Millington, Tenn. and we made banners and posters. We would meet the planes to help the families welcome them home. We would visit the Base Hospital to do what we could for the wounded. Both our girls (Debi & Rhonda) would graduate from High School while we were stationed in New Orleans, LA. We have so many memories and experiences from living in our beautiful America. We experienced an earthquake in California and our house flooded in New Orleans. We lived right in the paths of Hurricanes Carla, Alicia and Rita when those girls came to visit Texas!

 

After Luther's retirement (1979) from the military came the years of being a preacher's wife and a care giver for our aged parents. Luther has been the preacher for Churches of Christ in Greens Bayou, Huntington, New Caney and Livingston, Texas. My hobby for over 40 years has been creating visual aids and handwork for children's Bible Classes. Sometimes I hold work shops to help train teachers with this work.

 

We now live in Diboll, Texas which is near both our children and their families. The move to Diboll was our 22nd in our nearly 48 years of marriage. Yes, the box containing all our high school Comet papers and other memorabilia survived and will be shared with you at the reunion. We had 5 grandchildren. One was born with Spina Bifida, and we lost her at age 11 months. She taught us a lot about the world of the handicapped. The oldest grandchild is 25 and is the music teacher for Royalwood Elementary in the Sheldon School District. Then we have twin college students aged 19. Our youngest is a 13 year old 8th grader very involved in Band. When we moved to Diboll 3 years ago we found Dianne Tate (Morris Tate's wife) teaching her when she was a 5th grader. What a small world this can be!